Will Divorce Ruin My Life?

Posted on July 06, 2016 10:13am
Will Divorce Ruin My Life?

When spouses grow apart physically, mentally, and emotionally, some choose to work through issues and difficulties, while others find their situations unbearable or beyond repair. For individuals in the latter situation, divorce appears to be the most appropriate course of action. However, many fear that divorce will ruin their life. Perhaps this is why most people think about divorce for an average of two years before taking action.

Because our Washington family lawyers understand how stressful life can become leading up to divorce, we are here to remind you that many people who pursue divorce find that they are able to regain a prosperous and happy future after all is said and done.

This is not to say that divorce is easy, nor is the decision to divorce to be taken lightly. It is a serious process that will affect your life for a long time after it’s over – emotionally, financially, and socially. However, there are steps you can take to help achieve the most positive divorce outcome possible:

Express Your Desires to Your Spouse in a Thoughtful, Kind Manner

Expressing your concerns and desire to divorce to your spouse may seem like the hardest part of the entire process. However, the way in which you express your feelings can set the tone for the entire divorce. For this reason, it is best to communicate with your spouse in the most empathetic manner possible. When stating your desire for a divorce, try to explain how the decision will benefit you both while honoring the history between the two of you. If you have children together, treating each other with respect throughout the process will also serve to maintain a sense of stability for your family.

Consider Connecting with a Therapist

While some people may not believe that a therapist is necessary during or after the divorce process, many can benefit from working with a therapist or counselor who will objectively assess the situation and help you avoid the emotional setbacks and mental obstacles you may face during these life-changing events. A good therapist can help you feel hope for the brighter future that is to come and work through the challenges it will take you to get there.

Retain an Experienced Lawyer

If you are facing divorce, seek a consultation with a qualified divorce attorney immediately. You need to learn your legal options so you can make informed decisions from the start. Your attorney will help you evaluate the long-term impact of property division, custody and support issues, then work with you to ensure that your best interests are protected throughout the process.

If you are contemplating divorce or have already begun the process and would like help moving through legal matters, we encourage you to get in touch with our team right away. Our Washington divorce attorneys have the skills, knowledge, and experience required to guide you successfully through the process and obtain positive results.

Speak with a McKinley Irvin Washington divorce lawyer by calling our firm or filling out a consultation form online.

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