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Ten Questions to Ask When Choosing a Family Law Attorney

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Choosing a family law attorney is one of the most important decisions you’ll make during a difficult and emotional time. At McKinley Irvin, we encourage a thoughtful, deliberate approach when selecting the right lawyer for your case. While it’s natural to feel overwhelmed, taking the time to evaluate your options with a clear head can make all the difference in achieving a successful outcome.

To help guide your decision, we’ve prepared the following questions. These will help you identify and prioritize the qualities that matter most when selecting a divorce lawyer or family law attorney.

1. Does the attorney focus exclusively on family law?

You want someone deeply familiar with family law issues including divorce, custody, support, and property division. Do they limit their practice to this area, or is it only part of what they do?

2. Does the attorney have experience with cases like mine?

Whether your case involves complex custody matters, high-net-worth divorce, or a military family, it’s essential that your attorney has relevant experience and proven results.

3. Do they have the resources to support my case?

A strong legal team often includes paralegals, legal assistants, and access to modern technology. Does the firm have the infrastructure to provide top-tier legal representation and responsive client service?

4. Is the attorney professional and respectful?

Pay attention to how the attorney presents themselves, both in demeanor and communication. Are they respectful, articulate, and attentive?

5. Do they explain things clearly?

Legal matters can be complex. Your attorney should be able to answer your questions fully and in a way that’s easy to understand.

6. Do they listen to me and show genuine interest?

You deserve an attorney who is not only skilled but also compassionate. Are they truly listening to your concerns and goals?

7. Can they explain a legal strategy tailored to my case?

A good family law attorney can outline a realistic legal strategy and explain the pros and cons of each potential course of action.

8. Are they prepared to go to court if necessary?

While many family law cases settle outside of court, it’s important to know your attorney has the courtroom experience and confidence to advocate for you at trial, if needed.

9. Will they keep my case moving forward?

Family law cases can be time-sensitive. Does the attorney offer a clear plan and timeline to help ensure consistent progress toward resolution?

10. Do I feel comfortable working with this person?

Finally, trust your instincts. You’ll be working closely with your attorney so choose someone you feel you can communicate with and rely on.

If you’re in the process of selecting a family law attorney, we invite you to reach out and learn more about how we can support you. McKinley Irvin serves clients throughout Washington and Oregon, with offices in Seattle, Bellevue, Tacoma, Everett, Puyallup, Vancouver, and Portland. Whether you're facing divorce, a custody dispute, or another family law matter, our team is here to help you make informed decisions and move forward with confidence.

Call us at (206) 397-0399 or contact us online to schedule a consultation.

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