What to Do After Being Served with Divorce Papers

Posted on February 19, 2021 02:45pm
What to Do After Being Served with Divorce Papers

If one has been served with divorce papers, then one needs to take the situation seriously and make smart choices that will ensure their rights and best interests are protected. Whether one is expecting a divorce or not, how one responds to the divorce petition can severely impact the outcome of their case. Although dealing with divorce papers might seem overwhelming at first, following these steps can get one started on the right path.

Step #1: Read the Entire Petition

Once you’ve received divorce papers from your spouse, don’t ignore them! You need to closely review the document to figure out the deadline to respond to the petition. Additionally, divorce papers will inform you of the court where the action was filed, which is useful information if you are estranged from your spouse and the divorce is being filed out of state. The divorce papers will also list the grounds for divorce and whether the spouse is filing the paperwork on their own or if they have an attorney representing them. Understanding the significance of the information in the divorce papers is essential for building a strong legal strategy for your case.

Step #2: Provide Your Response

After you determine the deadline, you will have to provide a response to each numbered statement in the divorce papers. You can allege grounds of your own for divorce and propose a different allocation of your assets and debts, or matters like child support, alimony, and child custody. Whether you have an attorney handle your response or you draft one yourself, it needs to be done. Failing to respond to divorce papers can result in the court granting your ex-spouse all of their requests for the division of property, child custody, child support, and alimony.

Step #3: Consult with a Knowledgeable Lawyer

You should meet with a divorce lawyer within a week of getting the papers. An experienced lawyer can evaluate your situation, discuss your options, and determine the best way to ensure your legal interests are fully protected. An attorney can also simplify the divorce process by helping you manage important deadlines, mediate stressful communications, and advise how to properly communicate with your spouse regarding child custody, visitation rights, and parenting plan decisions.

Our compassionate lawyers at McKinley Irvin know that getting divorced can be a daunting and emotionally taxing experience. That is why our dedicated legal team is here to provide top-notch legal representation in all matters related to divorce. To request your consultation, please call today.

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